Children are indeed Often Surprising

Children are often surprising. That's their basic character. When they are comfortable with themselves, they often provide surprises to us.

The last few months, we experienced it with surprise. We did enjoy the basic character Of an active, creative, and happy initiative. We often praise it as a fertilizer and spray water to his character that we value either.

But it turns out The beyond our expectations by such initiative.

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His story, since these last few months Of learning to create a blog. The process he did independently/autodidact following the instructions in the Online Workshop to make a Blog hosted by the Digital Mommie.

It turns out The continuity and enjoy the process of making a blog. The ' ngulik and ' ngoprek blog. He replace-replace the background, change the header of the blog, and so on. Everything is done on its own, as Tata. In fact, she made a new blog again to dabble.

Now there are 2 blogs on Blogspot Layouts that are purely artificial Lighting itself, namely: Project Planning and the Draw. Blog it out "official blog" the world of Hairdressing. In his own blog, two Tata then filling it with various pictures and daily work.

Now Tata would rather fill Project of Tata and Tata Draw than World Governance. Perhaps because of his own and he felt proud of his work. Or, perhaps this is also part of the process of building identity because Tata's blog world it was awarding bapak-ibunya, hehehe ...


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Kamisenang see the active and creative. Some of the things we learned from The include:
a. every child there is Time

Each child is unique. Each child had a strength of each. There are directly visible and easy to get out. Anyone waiting for the time to come to fruition and then dug up.

As parents, we never know when our children sticking their potency. Not just a matter of time, we never knew what became of interest areas of attention.

The problem, we should not expect too much. Increasingly expect and demand, potential that is normally submerged and thus increasingly seems to hide. The harder we attract, the harder he hides himself.

But if we are quite relaxed and not too push the child, usually the potential that even thus manifest itself with itself.
b. Children Need Space Motion & Tool

We can do as a parent to our children is to provide comfortable spaces for children to express themselves. Enough space is important, especially for children who are active and creative. Such children tend to "drown" if its spatial too narrow because too many referrals from parents.

Sometimes the space alone is not enough. Sometimes we also need to provide a convenient tool for them to work. The tool can be a pencil beam, a computer, or whatever.

In the case of Tata, one of the trigger is currently Planning a leap in the ability to create a blog that is acquired from the online workshop which, incidentally, was held by his mother.
c. Fostering Appreciation

When the cozy atmosphere is felt, and then he began to show his work, one of the great PR for parents is to give appreciation. Do not criticize the result (which is certainly not yet perfect), but respond he does attentively. Give an appreciation on the initiative, appreciation of their hard work, appreciation of his fervor, the appreciation of the idea, and others.

Attention this appreciation should & ahead and sincere, not addition put behind criticism of the quality of the work of the child. The appreciation will be seen as a signal child acceptance (acceptance signal) which will fertilize the good things on him.

No matter how busy we are, we are trying to come up to The time he called and wanted to show his work. No matter how simple his work, we will praise him. Of course, compliment it cannot be extravagance due praise praise weighting will eliminate exaggeration of it.
d. Over Response hinders the development of the

Though the appreciation is very important, we need to keep the level of kewajarannya so that it cannot get too excited when giving a response. Like the new kid could go one step and probably will still be jatuh-bangun to find stability, don't get too excited as if she had won the 100 m Championship.
Also, the means and the stimulus that we give necessary accordingly. Newborn child could walk yet need a bike or skates. Excessive investment and support can-can improve our expectations to a child and thus burdening them.

Like farming, fertilizers that too much can be bad for your plants, too much water will make the plant root rot.